Steps 3 and 4

Commit to change by making a decision to turn your will over to a higher power and conduct a thorough personal inventory.

Step 3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

Explanation:
Step three involves making a conscious decision to surrender control of our lives and our will to a higher power. This step is about trust and the willingness to let go of the need to manage everything ourselves.

Questions:

1. What does “turning our will and lives over” mean in practical terms for you? How might this decision affect your daily life and choices?
2. Are there specific areas of your life where you find it difficult to let go of control? How can you start to address these areas with trust in a higher power?
3. How can you practice this decision in your daily actions and decisions?

Step 4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

Explanation:
The fourth step involves taking a deep and honest look at our own behaviors, attitudes, and character flaws. This inventory helps identify areas where we need to make changes and seek forgiveness.

Questions:

1. Begin by listing areas of your life where you feel guilt, regret, or conflict. What patterns or recurring issues do you notice?
2. Reflect on your relationships with others. How have your actions affected them, and what are the underlying causes of these effects?
3. What are the key character traits or behaviours you identify as areas for growth or change?